Have you ever sat through a meeting and thought to yourself,
“ I don’t agree with that!” It doesn’t matter what that is, it could be anything. However, you don’t want to interrupt and say, “Hey I disagree!” Because, well that sounds rude and your mother raised you better than that. Right?
I used to be afraid to say “I disagree, in a meeting. I didn’t want to be rude. But then I began practicing other ways to get my point across, without sounding rude or confrontational.
You know what it’s like, you sit there all the while wanting to say something but not exactly sure how to let others know you disagree.
Well today is your luck day, because I am going to share with you 5 ways to tell someone you disagree without sounding rude or saying, “I disagree.” Ready?
1️⃣ “I see your point, but…”
Why It Works: This phrase is both polite and professional, making it perfect for workplace conversations. By acknowledging the other person’s view first, you show respect before expressing a different opinion.
Example:
👉 I see your point, but I think we should try another approach.“
2️⃣ “I’m not sure I see it that way.”
Why It Works: Soft and diplomatic, this phrase sounds thoughtful and less direct, making it ideal for those moments when you need to reflect on differing data or opinions.
Example:
👉 I’m not sure I see it that way. The data looks different to me.
3️⃣ “I have a different perspective.”
Why It Works: This professional phrase is great for meetings as it reframes disagreement as sharing another view, encouraging open dialogue.
Example:
👉 I have a different perspective. We might want to focus on the customer first.
4️⃣ “That’s one way to look at it, but…”
Why It Works: Slightly more casual and conversational, this phrase acknowledges the other person’s opinion before offering your own.
Example:
👉 That’s one way to look at it, but I think the timeline is too short.
5️⃣ “I’m afraid I don’t agree.”
Why It Works: A very polite way to express disagreement, common in formal English, this phrase uses “I’m afraid” to soften the blow.
Example:
👉 I’m afraid I don’t agree. We may need more time.
⭐ Quick Tip
Remember this formula: Acknowledge + Softener + Opinion
Examples:
✅ I see what you mean, but I think…
✅ That’s a good point, however…
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